What it is
When should I look for childcare? Daycare or nanny? What is a nanny share? Childcare often has to be decided before you meet your baby. In California, infant spots are scarce. Many families start the search in the second trimester.
What's typical
Infant daycare waitlists in many California towns run six to twelve months. Many centers do not take babies under six weeks. A nanny share splits one nanny between two families, which lowers the cost. The first weeks of daycare bring more colds and more tears. It usually settles in three to four weeks.
What's known
Research on childcare quality finds that the caregiver's warmth and the adult-to-baby ratio matter more than the type of care. California licenses centers and home daycares, and the records are public.
What helps
- Tour three places. Watch how the adults talk to the babies.
- Ask about ratios, sick policies, and what happens when a teacher is out.
- Call your county's child care Resource and Referral agency. They know who has openings and who has subsidies.
When to call someone
- Nowif a caregiver reports a fall, a head bump, or a baby who is hard to wake, call the pediatrician or 911 at once.
- Todayif your baby comes home with marks you cannot explain, or you have a bad feeling about a setting.
- At your next visitask about vaccines and illness before starting group care.
Who helps
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Sources
- California Department of Social Services — Community Care Licensing: choosing child care
- California Child Care Resource & Referral Network — Parent guide to finding child care
- Child Care Aware of America — Checklist for choosing quality child care
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