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Postpartum: Your Body

Bleeding, healing, pelvic floor, hormones, and the signs that mean call now.

• Postpartum bleeding (lochia): what's normal, what's notLochia, the bleeding after birth, lasts four to six weeks and fades from red to white. Soaking a pad an hour is a call now.
• Afterpains: cramping while nursingAfterpains are cramps in the first days after birth as your uterus shrinks back. They are strongest while nursing and after second and later babies.
• Healing a tear or stitchesMost tears and stitches feel much better by two weeks and are healed by six. Peri bottle, cold, sitz baths, and rest do the work.
• Cesarean recovery, week by weekA cesarean is major surgery and a birth at once. The skin closes in about two weeks; the deeper layers take six weeks or more.
• The first poop, constipation, and hemorrhoids after birthThe first poop after birth usually comes on day two to four. Fear, iron, pain medicine, and hemorrhoids all slow it down. Stitches will hold.
• Peeing after birth and leakingTrouble peeing on day one and leaking when you sneeze for months are both common. Both have help. Neither is just how it is now.
• Your pelvic floor after birthYour pelvic floor is the sling of muscle that held the baby up. Heaviness, leaking, and pressure are signs it needs help, not time.
• Prolapse: heaviness, bulging, and what helpsProlapse is when the bladder, uterus, or bowel drops into the vagina. It feels like a bulge or heaviness. It is common and treatable.
• Night sweats, chills, and the hormone dropWaking soaked in sweat in the first weeks is the hormone drop and your body shedding pregnancy fluid. It fades by about six weeks.
• Postpartum hair lossHair falling out in handfuls around three months postpartum is the pregnancy hair letting go all at once. It grows back, usually within a year.
• Engorgement when milk comes inEngorgement is when your breasts go rock hard, hot, and tight as milk comes in around day three. It peaks for a day or two.
• Clogged ducts and mastitisA clogged duct is a tender lump. Mastitis is a red, hot breast with fever and flu-like aches. Fever that lasts needs a same-day call.
• Nipple pain, cracks, and healingSore nipples in the first week are common. Cracks, bleeding, or pain through the whole feed mean the latch needs a look, not more toughness.
• Thrush and other nipple infectionsBurning or shooting breast pain is often called thrush, but it has several causes: yeast, bacteria, a bleb, or vasospasm. Each looks a little different.
• Wrist and thumb pain from holding the babyThumb-side wrist pain from lifting the baby is de Quervain's. It is common, and changed habits and a brace help most mothers.
• Back, neck, and shoulder pain from feeding and carryingHunching over feeds and hauling a car seat strain a body still loose from pregnancy. Bring the baby to you, not you to the baby.
• Swelling after birthSwollen feet and legs after birth are pregnancy and IV fluids working their way out. It peaks around day four and clears in two weeks.
• Postpartum preeclampsia: the warning signsA severe headache, vision changes, or high blood pressure after birth can be postpartum preeclampsia. It is an emergency. Call 911 or go in now.
• Signs of infection after birthFever of 100.4 or more after birth is a call today. Fever with a racing heart or confusion is a call now. Infection moves fast.
• Blood clots: the signs to knowOne swollen, painful leg is a clot until proven otherwise. Sudden breathlessness or chest pain is a 911 call. The risk peaks after birth.
• When your period comes backPeriods return around six to twelve weeks if you are not breastfeeding, often months later if you are. The first ones are heavy and irregular.
• Birth control after birthYou can get pregnant before your first period, even while breastfeeding. Every method is on the table after birth. The questions are yours to ask.
• Sex after birth: when, pain, dryness, desireThere is no magic date for sex after baby. Most mothers wait past six weeks, most feel pain at first, and low desire is common.
• The six-week checkup (and why it isn't enough)The six-week visit is often fifteen minutes. Go in with a list, and know that ACOG now says care should start by three weeks.
• Postpartum thyroid problemsAbout one in twenty mothers gets postpartum thyroiditis. It can look like anxiety, then like depression or plain exhaustion. One blood test sorts it out.
• Anemia and exhaustion after birthTired beyond what sleep explains, dizzy when you stand, pale and short of breath: low iron after birth is common and easy to test for.
• Sleep deprivation: what it does and how to survive itNo sleep is the hardest part of the first months. Broken sleep hurts more than short sleep, and one protected stretch a night changes things.
• Your body after birth: weight, shape, and timelinesYou will still look pregnant for weeks. Most weight comes off over a year, not six weeks, and the body that comes back is different.
• Returning to exerciseWalking can start within days. Running and impact wait until about twelve weeks and a ready pelvic floor. Leaking or heaviness means slow down.
• Scar care: cesarean and perineal scarsA scar keeps changing for a year or more. Numbness is normal. Once it is closed, gentle massage can keep it soft and moving.
• Headaches after birthMost headaches after birth are sleep, dehydration, or migraine returning. Two kinds are not: a spinal headache after an epidural, and preeclampsia. Know both.
• Getting sick while postpartumA cold with a newborn is miserable but usually fine. Keep feeding and wash hands. A fever, in you or the baby, is a call.
• Postpartum warning signs: the one-page listOne page of when to call the doctor after birth. Print it, put it on the fridge, and give a copy to whoever is helping.