What it is
You still look pregnant, and someone online bounced back in six weeks. Birth takes off about ten to thirteen pounds at once: baby, placenta, fluid. Another five to ten pounds of fluid leaves over two weeks. The uterus takes about six weeks to shrink, so the belly stays round that long. Stretched muscle and skin come back slowly, and not all the way for everyone.
What's typical
At one year, the average mother is a few pounds above where she started, with a wide range. Breastfeeding helps some mothers lose weight and not others; the evidence is mixed. Dieting hard in the early months tends to backfire while you are healing and possibly making milk.
What's known
ACOG says gradual weight loss is safe while breastfeeding. 'Bounce back' is a marketing phrase, not a medical one. Many cultures spend the first forty days feeding the mother, and none of them expect her to shrink.
What helps
- Eat enough. Healing and making milk both need food. If you do not want to cook, that is what we make.
- Put the old jeans away for a season. Buy two things that fit now.
When to call someone
- Todayfast weight loss with a racing heart or shaking, or swelling that is getting worse.
- At your next visita belly that domes when you sit up at three months, or how you feel about your body is weighing on your mood.
Who helps
Tools: Postpartum Meal Planner
Related
- Diastasis recti: abdominal separationPregnancy: Your Body
- Returning to exercisePostpartum: Your Body
- Belly bindingNourishment and Traditions
- Why postpartum food is differentNourishment and Traditions
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Sources
- Institute of Medicine — Weight gain during pregnancy: reexamining the guidelines
- American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists — Patient FAQ on your body after birth
- NHS — Your post-pregnancy body
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