Soothing a newborn

Newborns settle with the things the womb did: tight, moving, noisy, sucking. The 5 S's are one way to remember them. Some days nothing works.

What it is

Soothing is the set of moves that calm a newborn, and most of them copy the womb. The 5 S's, from pediatrician Harvey Karp, are the common list: Swaddle, Side or stomach hold (in your arms, never for sleep), Shush, Swing, and Suck. First check the basics: hungry, wet, too hot, a hair wrapped around a toe.

What's typical

A newborn often needs two or three S's at once, and loud. The shush should match the cry. The swing is a small, fast jiggle with the head supported, not a big rock. Most babies calm within minutes when the layers stack. Some do not, and that is normal too.

What's known

Pediatric groups accept the 5 S's as safe, with two cautions. The side or stomach hold is for soothing in arms only; sleep is on the back. The jiggle must never become a shake.

What helps

Stack the layers: swaddle, side hold, shush and jiggle, then pacifier or clean finger.
Change the scene. Step outside, or into the bathroom with the fan on.
Skin-to-skin on your chest or your partner's.
Set a timer for ten minutes. If nothing works, put the baby down safely and breathe.

When to call someone

Nowa baby who cannot be calmed and also has a fever, green vomit, a bulging soft spot, or is limp.
Todaycrying that goes on for hours with no calm stretches, or a baby who will not feed.
At your next visityou dread the evenings, or you need more ideas.

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Postpartum doulaPediatricianFamily and community resources

Tools: Postpartum Prep Checklist

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Sources

American Academy of Pediatrics, HealthyChildren.org — How to calm a fussy baby: tips for parents and caregivers
Happiest Baby — The 5 S's for soothing babies (parent guide)

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