What it is
A pacifier gives a baby something to suck between feeds, and sucking calms babies. The question most mothers have is when, and whether it will get in the way of breastfeeding. The AAP suggests offering one at sleep times once breastfeeding is well established, for most pairs around three to four weeks. For a bottle-fed baby, there is no reason to wait. If the baby spits it out, it is not forced back in.
What's typical
Many newborns take one easily; some never do. It falls out once the baby is asleep and does not need to go back in. Most children wean between one and three years. Dental changes show up mostly past age two or three.
What's known
The AAP's safe sleep guidance lists a pacifier at sleep among the things linked to lower SIDS risk; the reason is not fully known. The Academy of Breastfeeding Medicine notes that early pacifier use is linked with shorter breastfeeding in some studies, and the link may be a marker of feeding trouble rather than a cause. Both agree: no cords or clips at sleep, no sweet dips.
What helps
- Offer it when you lay the baby down, not to stretch out a feed in the early weeks.
- Replace one that is sticky, cracked, or soft.
When to call someone
- Nowa piece breaks off in the baby's mouth, or the baby is choking.
- Todaya baby who only settles with the pacifier and is feeding less, with fewer wet diapers.
- At your next visitnipple pain or a shallow latch that started with the pacifier.
Who helps
Tools: Feeding Prep
Related
- Newborn sleep and safe sleepBaby Basics
- Getting a deep latchFeeding Your Baby
- Soothing a newbornBaby Basics
- Biting and teething at the breastFeeding Your Baby
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Sources
- American Academy of Pediatrics — Safe sleep policy statement (2022)
- Academy of Breastfeeding Medicine — Clinical protocol on breastfeeding the healthy term infant
- American Academy of Pediatric Dentistry — Policy on pacifiers and oral habits
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