What it is
Male fertility is half the picture, and the half nobody books a visit for. A new batch of sperm takes about 74 days to form. So what your partner does now shows up in about three months.
What's typical
In couples who have trouble conceiving, a male factor is involved about 40 to 50 percent of the time. Sperm counts respond to heat. Hot tubs, saunas, and a laptop on the lap all lower them for weeks. Smoking, heavy drinking, cannabis, and steroids lower count and quality. A semen test is simple, done at a lab or with a mail-in kit.
What's known
The American Urological Association and ASRM both say a semen test belongs early in any infertility workup. Studies link a diet rich in fish, vegetables, nuts, and whole grains with better sperm quality. Antioxidant supplements are sold hard for this. Reviews of the research find weak or mixed results.
What helps
- Keep heat away: skip hot tubs and saunas, wear loose underwear, keep the laptop on a desk.
- Cut back on alcohol and quit smoking and vaping. Three months is enough to see a change.
- Ask him to book a semen test if you have been trying six months.
When to call someone
- Nowfor him, sudden severe testicle pain is an ER visit.
- Todayhe finds a lump or swelling in a testicle. That is a same-day call to his own doctor.
- At your next visityou have been trying six months to a year, or he takes testosterone, which lowers sperm count.
Who helps
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Sources
- American Society for Reproductive Medicine — Optimizing male fertility patient fact sheet
- American Urological Association — Male infertility guideline
- Centers for Disease Control and Prevention — Infertility FAQs
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